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Parent's Values Are Outdated In Current Market
Kevin J. Daum

This article was originally published in the June 21st, 2002 edition of the East Bay Business Times.

Last week while I was having dinner at my friend Scott's, I was enjoying the company of four other members of the Young Entrepreneurs Organization (YEO). Before long the conversation among us thirty-something CEOs turned as it always does, to a discussion about money. This time our visiting friend from New Zealand had brought up the subject of housing and loans. Being the Mortgage Broker of the group (every group has one these days you know), I was immediately bombarded by inquiries as to the current interest rates. "I am looking at refinancing. What's a 15 year conforming fixed going for?"

I shouldn't have been surprised by the question. It's a common loan on the East Coast and since Mike and Beth were both out here from Jersey (where my Alameda house that just appraised for $1.1mm would have sold for $350,000); this sort of financial approach would not have been unusual. A paid off house outside of California is generally 30% to 40% of a family's diversified net worth, not 80% as is the case here in the Bay Area. What raised my eyebrows was that the lips mouthing this question were those of Jim, who lived down the street from me. His house was not as big or nice as mine (of course) but still, I knew the value to be close to $750,000 so it was fascinating to me that he was sitting on top of $450,000 in equity locked up in his house.

Jim had always claimed to be fiscally conservative. His company was grossing more than a million dollars annually and he was able to draw a decent salary, too decent, to hear the way he whined about the income taxes he was paying every year. I knew him to be a reasonably savvy investor with his $100,000 in retirement since he had been bragging a steady 9.5% return even through the dot com bust. But here he wanted a fifteen-year fixed rate that forced him to invest money at 3% less than the yields he was earning and would eventually increase his tax payments even more by reducing his tax deductions.

But this is the part that made me giggle. When I put those questions to Jim he responded, "C'mon Kev, you know I am risk adverse." This was true in business. Jim's company handles risk management consulting for Fortune 500 companies. It was Jim's job to instruct major conglomerates as to proper preparation for all-out disasters. Here was my chance to prove to Jim that so many intelligent people today allow their emotions to take over their decision making process when it comes to their personal residence, even though it usually represents their biggest asset, liability and monthly payment.

"Jim" I asked, " What is the cure you preach to your clients to mitigate risk against any crisis?" Jim responded "Kevin it always boils down to flexibility which comes from liquidity." Aha! I thought. Our New Zealand friend picked up on it immediately and asked, "So if you're so risk adverse, why is most of your own money tied up in your house where you can't get it? Doesn't sound very flexible to me." "And why invest more with a 15 year loan?" chimed in Mike. "You must love paying taxes," said Beth, the other Jersey-ite. The four of us went in for the kill like piranhas mauling a baby duck (a typical friendly debate for this group).

It soon became apparent even to Jim that the standard approach to mortgage shopping is done in a financial vacuum. We discussed how lenders have turned our most critical financial decision into an exercise of pricing rates and fees as a commodity with no consideration for the implications to our financial portfolios not to mention the tax consequences. No one at the table felt stupid however everyone agreed they hadn't approached the subject with the same concern for education as they would for their business or their family's security. There lies the real irony as most people associate their home with family security.

The conclusions at the table were simple and unified (rather unusual for a group of executives). There was agreement that no right or wrong answers exist as to specific programs or approaches to balancing financial security with emotional security. Several at the table could trace their emotional approach to their home back to lessons from parents and grandparents whose financial decisions were based upon older economic models. These models had little relevance to the Bay Area economy today.

What was agreed upon was that none of us had any excuse for not spending the time to educate ourselves about mortgages and how they integrate with our tax and investment strategies. With the rates at all time lows, there would be no better time than now.

Needless to say, we all let Jim pick up the check and get the deduction.


About the Author...
Kevin Daum is the Founder and CEO of Stratford Financial Services, a Real Estate finance and education company, founded in 1989. Stratford specializes in Purchase loans, Refinance loans and Custom Home Construction finance and has successfully financed thousands of clients. He is the author of "Building Your Own Home for Dummies" (Wiley), as well as "What the Banks Won’t Tell You." Mr. Daum was an Underwriter for Plaza Savings and Loan and Key Bank of New York. He is an INC 500 CEO and has been listed as one the 40 Most Influential People Under 40 in the San Francisco Bay Area. He is the Global Chair for the Edison Innovation Program with the Young Entrepreneurs' Organization (YEO) and is a founding Board member of the Bay Area Chapter of YEO.

Mr. Daum is a frequent contributor to numerous business publications on the subjects of Real Estate and Small Business leadership and speaks regularly on both subjects. He can be contacted at kevin@stratfordfinancial.com.

 

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